KRISTIN LEONHEART
  • Home
  • About Me
    • My Office
  • Offerings
    • Individual Therapy
    • Somatic Trauma Therapy
    • Mindfulness and Meditation
    • Spiritual Support & Guidance
    • Eating Disorders and Body Image
    • Guided Meditations
  • Fees and Insurance
  • Forms
  • Blog
  • Contact

Romancing Yourself

10/23/2018

1 Comment

 
Picture

This dear friend always kills it - enjoy <3

"While sometimes this romancing is meant for one night or just for the building of a short-term connection, frequently it can be seen as the beginning of a tender dialogue, a period of mutual intimacy and knowing, setting the stage for deepening relationship and affection. It can potentially lay the seeds for love, or for the transformation, redefining, or recontextualizing of love through sensual awakening. And while I’m not a fan of models that paint long-term commitment as the only valid framework for relationship, or that privilege romantic and sexual relationships over deep, intimate, meaningful friendships, I do believe we can learn self-love from the ways in which we conceive of romance as an awakening, arousing, and blissful bathing of the senses.

For those of us who learned to love ourselves from an early age, romancing ourselves can be self-care, giving us needed moments of solitary contentment and relaxation. And for those of us who never learned how to love ourselves, who were never taught our worth or value, or who still struggle on the daily with how to love what we see in our mirrors and minds, maybe romancing ourselves is the key to allowing tender, sweet love to seed itself. Maybe in showering our bodies with lush luxury and our senses with safe, pleasurable experiences, we can fall in love with ourselves, with the one taking the time and making the effort to bring us nourishing warmth, sensual touch, and renewing awareness of our bodies as sacred, valid, and praiseworthy."
​
- Christy Croft

medium.com/@christycroft/romance-yourself-71ff17a845a?fbclid=IwAR1nAjXSxPWPJ6_wMR91ukDC1awPlGl91_TxlVKBmtAL8ZxnPaKfFDmbWYk
1 Comment
essay on time reviews link
11/5/2018 10:12:40 pm

I always believe that we should learn how to love ourselves first before anyone else. You cannot give what you don't have; if you don't have the right amount of love for yourself, how can you give the love other people deserve to receive from you. It should always start and grow with you. Life is too precious and we are given the chance to love other people, but we should always love ourselves first. Never be selfish to yourself because that's for your own good.

Reply



Leave a Reply.

    Author

    I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in Carrboro, NC.

    Archives

    May 2019
    April 2019
    March 2019
    February 2019
    January 2019
    October 2018
    September 2018
    July 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    March 2018
    January 2018
    December 2017
    November 2017
    October 2017
    September 2017
    July 2017
    June 2017
    May 2017
    April 2017
    March 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017
    December 2016
    November 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    December 2015
    August 2015
    July 2015
    June 2015
    May 2015
    March 2015
    February 2015
    January 2015
    December 2014
    November 2014
    October 2014
    September 2014
    July 2014

    Categories

    All

    RSS Feed

Proudly powered by Weebly

Kristin Leonheart, M.S., LMFT
© All rights reserved

Picture

    Contact Me

    [object Object]
Submit

Hours:
Monday 12pm-8pm
Tuesday 10am-8pm
Wednesday 2pm-6:30pm